A Needle in a Haystack: How to Find Love in the RubbleFinding your perfect mate can be difficult, especially in today's world of online dating, casual hookups, and ghosting. So how does a person find their ideal match, and how do they know when they've found them? In Needle in a Haystack, pastor and best selling author Jameliah Gooden provides salient advice for how to "dig through the rubble" of the dating world, avoid unhealthy relationships, and date from a place of self and mutual respect. She writes